30 March 2023

Mere Appa



 It is very difficult to craft up the perfect blog for my papa , 

But still will be extra careful to ensure that my 600 hundred words expansion emanates the warmth which he have . 

so yeah let's start the journey to know my appa ........

My Parivaar 

My father plays an important role in the family. He is in fact considered as the head of the family. However, I feel that both father and mother have a distinctive role to play in bringing up their children. While on hand my mother has s soft heart, it is my father who shows courage and strength which his children will later on imbibe as their qualities. He can be firm at times, but be rest assured it is always for the benefit of the children.

Because both my parents are overachievers. So since this blog is for Appa, then let's talk about him because Mataji is the master of every field , so there will be a separate blog for her.

There was a time when i was a toddler i used to sit on petrol tank of his bike and go on a ride with him . We used to roam around the whole city and while coming back, Appa always used to feed me Kullad Doodh .I used to wait for him for dinner so that appa and I could eat together. And because I was the first child and also the first child in the whole parivaar , I always got a lot of love.

But as I grew older, distance started coming between appa and me.And this distance was not because of anyone or because of any problem. It is said in our society that daughters should keep a distance from their father.So that papa ki pari wala scene was never with me.I used to talk less to appa like a responsible family girl . And because appa was a little short tempered, I used to have a fear that appa might get angry about something.But as the saying goes, Jo Hota Hai Acche Ke Liye Hota Hai .Many things happened in my life that I had to keep my fear aside and talk to Appa.Many times i had to speak in a loud voice as well , for which i sincerely apologize to Bhagwan ji and Appa . but may be if i had not done that then the situation would have been different today .

Appa is a politician , social worker , teacher and a computer programmer . He is well known in every section of the society . so he himself understood that it is not a good thing to keep distance from daughters . it is only the orthodox traditions that need to be broken . 

 Appa never made any difference between me and Vashu . Once Vashu got something or not, my needs were always fulfilled. And for this I am thankful to both my maa and appa .By and by, Appa and I started becoming quite frank.And today is a time that I can talk to Appa about anything without any hesitation, ask for anything.

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He has always been respected by me and will always be.As for every child, father is his biggest support system.Appa  is also my biggest support system. And I pray to God that he always supports me in future also.I am not saying that my father is the best  because he is not my father, he is my Appa. And my appa is one and only. As everyone likes to believe that their father is different, so do I. Nonetheless, this conviction is not merely based on the love I have for him, but also because of his personality. My father owns a business and is quite disciplined in all aspects of life. He is the one who taught me to always practice discipline no matter what work I do.

Most importantly, he has a jovial nature and always makes my mother laugh with his silly antics even after 21 years of marriage. I completely adore this silly side of him when he is with his loved ones. He tries his best to fulfill all our wishes but also maintains the strictness when the need arises.

There is no one like him in this world and there will never be .

Do you know if my appa was a dish so what could he be , , spicy like red chili , sweet and sour like imli , sometimes bitter like bitter gourd , Juicy like mango and everyone's favorite, And like a pomegranate, the one who has the solution to everyone's problems , as adaptable as potatoes . 

At the end i just want to say a line to Appa that A daughter may outgrow your lap but she'll never outgrow your heart........

I am the official photographer of Appa